Difficulty Management

        "The greater the struggle one undergoes, greater the person who comes out of it." - Swami Vivekananda.

           Today I started writing by this quote of Swami Vivekananda because, if we study his life we can easily understand that how a person can transform the difficulties of his life to the opportunity of being great. We face difficulties in every moment of our life some are major and others are minor. That

Difficulties are also opportunities

may be problem in our professional life, problems in our personal life, problems in our business world. You may be in any professional sector, may of any age, you can not say that you did not face any difficulties in your life. To face the difficulties steadily and solve the problems is important to be successful in any world. So today I selected the topic 'Difficulty Management'. God gives difficulties to only those person who have the potential to handle it. So friends never loose your heart in front of the difficulties, be steady, try your level best to solve the issue. Always be sure that someone from somewhere is always observing your works. After sometimes you will certainly realize that you get help from an unknown or unexpected source and all your problems are solved. But till that moment do not accept your defeat for a single moment. As Benjamin Franklin said, "God helps those who help themselves."

               In this topic I want to say a small story said by Sri Sri Ramakrishna Paramhansha. Once a piece of stone who used for keeping shoes in a temple asked the stone who is the idol of the same temple that we both are same marble, no one can find any characteristic differences between us, we are the part of the same hill. But everybody prays to you, loves you, take care of you; on the other hand everybody neglect me, nobody give any priorities to me. keep shoes on me. What is the reason behind this? I want to know it eagerly.Then the idol stone smiled and replied with patience that you did not realized my pain when I was hitted by so many instruments by the artist to put out the wonderful idol hidden in me. I get tremendous pain when they cuts my every extra grams of stone to make me beautiful. Behalf of our similar characteristic the artist did not select you because he thought that you can not tolerate the hammering. These pains made me much superior than you for which today you are used for keeping shoes and I used as the idol.

           When you face any gigantic problem certainly in your life. You are normally very much mentally disturbed at that moment of time. The first thing maximum people do after facing any problem is looking for its solution immediately after any problem faced by them. In this respect I will suggest you that do not look for the solution of the problem immediately, as you are very much mentally disturbed at that moment. If you standing very close to any very tall building then you can not see the entire building at any moment, instead you can see only a part of it. So if you want to see the entire building you should keep a distance from it. The same thing happens to our mind, when we are very much mentally disturbed then we can not do our basic works efficiently. So first we have to think for a moment. Make our mind calm, understand the entire problem and its depth, then we should for its solution. make yourself a separate personality and find the solution as a outsider. You can also write down your problems in a paper and think on it. If you think on problems written on a paper it gives you a feelings like you are an outsider to the problem, then you can find its solution. If you have any good friend on whom you can believe, you can also share the problem with him. So many times the solution comes after a small conversation. Beside your peers you can also discuss the problems with your elders, guarders, parents. Their suggestions will be very much valuable to you. In this case due to their lots of experience guarders are proven as much more better than peers for giving solutions to any problems or giving you suggestion that what should you do at that moment. So there are so many systems or persons in our community from which we can get help at the time of difficulty.

             I think that the best one is yourself who can give you the best solution for any problem in your life, believe in the power of your mind. Anybody can else can give you only suggestion. So always try take suggestion from the near and dear ones and then find the ultimate solution by yourself. Nurture your mind to understand its subconscious power. The another important thing at the time of facing any problem is your attitude towards it. If you think that you can solve the problem then definitely you can solve it, but you think that you can not solve any problem then you can not solve it at any time, even if you give your best effort. So first make your attitude positive.

               Always try to point out your weakness in your life. After pointing out that make that your strong point by regular practice. If you have lost any organ in your life then always say to yourself that the worse thing what can happened in your life was already happened. So nothing worse can be happened. Now you should make yourself prepared for the good things which are on their way. If you have any psychological weakness then try to make yourself understand that the God did not give anything more to the persons who are strong in these respects, than you. God cannot be biased, try to turning your weakness to your strength. It takes time but once you have done it then nobody can holds you back.

Tips for 'Difficulty Management' -

• Motivation is the most important to overcome the situation.
• Read Self Help Books and Motivational Quotes.
• Keep believe on yourself and don't loose patience, the best solution will always come from yourself.

                  A wise person had correctly said, “Sometimes, struggles are exactly what we need in our life. If we were to go through our life without any obstacles, we would be crippled. We would not be as strong as what we could have been. Give every opportunity a chance, leave no room for regrets.” This attitude is very much important at time of facing any problems. The problem solving ability makes us successful in any domain. Difficulties came in your life to make yourself more successful.

            Another thinking style in this respect was introduced by Mr.Robin Sharma. He said that everybody should try to make the so-called 'bad day' into a 'positive one'. He said that there isn't any thing which we can call a 'bad day'. In this respect I will like to quote Nietzsche’s genius line, “What doesn’t kill us makes us stronger?” So the experiences of hard time makes us stronger, tougher, faster and smarter. When you challenges are become tougher day by day then always remember that you are also moving ahead brilliantly.

         We can think the situation in numerous other ways. If follows the concept of Swami Vivekananda's 'Karma Yoga', then we can also explain the extreme difficulties in some entirely new style. The problem solving ability is always present in our subconscious mind. The difficulties just came in our life to make us able to judge our actual qualities. They make us understand that what are our capabilities and abilities of handling a difficult situation. These situation slowly uncover our hidden abilities, and after solving each and every problem you can find yourself much stronger than before.

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